 single single single. hmmm.. it ain't bad at all. having no boyfriend around, no monthsaries to celebrate and no LQ's.. aaah!! what a peace of mind, hehehehe. singlehood is actually a state in my life where i am able to reflect on things, on the going-on's of my life and on pampering myself with more more love, and also on spending more time with my family and friends. long before, i thought that being single is a curse. but eventually, i learned the contrary: being in a relationship is a curse, haha! just kiddin' anyway. actually, i have learned a lot from L-O-V-E. the "give and take" you need to practice in a relationship, the open communication channels you need to implement and so on, and so forth. i am actually an active love student. hehehe! that's why i can say that i have learned a lot from my past love experiences, as the saying goes: experience is the best teacher. certainly true enough! but then, im not a love guru or love expert, as what my friends would tease me. its just that i view the lessons clearly and learn from it all with positivity. i guess that's the good cycle one must experience. my singlehood thought me to ponder on things. just like about my dream career and learning to gain the "real" happiness. it gives me the chance of turning the focusing lens to my "SELF", it upgrades my thinking and gives me wider realizations on life, and also helps me to become more optimistic about outlooks in life. with all of those, i learn to love myself even more. which actually is really important: learn to love yourself first before giving a mere part of yourself to a stranger. for now, i've been focusing on my studies. as what i have mentioned on my past blog contents, i really wanted to graduate from college.marching up through the aisle wearing black robes with my parents on both sides. though im single, i still enjoy sight-seeing boys out there, hehehehe! crushes are means of enjoyment. (laughing-out-loud) it gives me the chance to realized, too, that i should not rush on things. just like in love, we should never rush on to it. there are many fish in the sea, and we always know that the right person for us will really come at the right time, right circumstances and at the right place. that's the good implication of finally having the right person. eveything on earth has its own time, learn to wait for that perfect time and you will find joy forever. so don't be sad if you are single at the moment. the wise persons would think that "singlehood nowadays is an option, not a chance". grow, learn and feel the love of your family, friends, and GOD. those are the best love i ever felt in this universe. stay happy! -lotz- |
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