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single single single.
hmmm.. it ain't bad at all. having no boyfriend around, no monthsaries to celebrate and no LQ's.. aaah!! what a peace of mind, hehehehe.

singlehood is actually a state in my life where i am able to reflect on things, on the going-on's of my life and on pampering myself with more more love, and also on spending more time with my family and friends.

long before, i thought that being single is a curse. but eventually, i learned the contrary: being in a relationship is a curse, haha! just kiddin' anyway.
actually, i have learned a lot from L-O-V-E.
the "give and take" you need to practice in a relationship, the open communication channels you need to implement and so on, and so forth.
i am actually an active love student. hehehe! that's why i can say that i have learned a lot from my past love experiences, as the saying goes: experience is the best teacher. certainly true enough!
but then, im not a love guru or love expert, as what my friends would tease me. its just that i view the lessons clearly and learn from it all with positivity.
i guess that's the good cycle one must experience.

my singlehood thought me to ponder on things. just like about my dream career and learning to gain the "real" happiness. it gives me the chance of turning the focusing lens to my "SELF", it upgrades my thinking and gives me wider realizations on life, and also helps me to become more optimistic about outlooks in life.
with all of those, i learn to love myself even more. which actually is really important: learn to love yourself first before giving a mere part of yourself to a stranger.

for now, i've been focusing on my studies. as what i have mentioned on my past blog contents, i really wanted to graduate from college.marching up through the aisle wearing black robes with my parents on both sides.

though im single, i still enjoy sight-seeing boys out there, hehehehe!
crushes are means of enjoyment. (laughing-out-loud)
it gives me the chance to realized, too, that i should not rush on things. just like in love, we should never rush on to it. there are many fish in the sea, and we always know that the right person for us will really come at the right time, right circumstances and at the right place. that's the good implication of finally having the right person.
eveything on earth has its own time, learn to wait for that perfect time and you will find joy forever.

so don't be sad if you are single at the moment.
the wise persons would think that "singlehood nowadays is an option, not a chance".

grow, learn and feel the love of your family, friends, and GOD. those are the best love i ever felt in this universe.

stay happy!

-lotz-

FIASCO- (n.) A complete or ridiculous failure of any pretentious undertaking.

Admit it, we are all scared of failing. And as much as possible, we really do our best to avoid it and aim in excelling at all times.

Yes I am one of those who are afraid of downfalls. I always wanted to be appreciated, to be the best in the field I am taking, to look... perfect, to be viewed as a person with substance. I hated being degraded and being conceived as "stupid".

But you really cannot predict fate and what we are really doing in the present affects or determines the future.
If we choose to become lazy at present, eventually tomorrow will never be that brighter as you expect it to be. But if you embark on being industrious now, you will SOON harvest the fruits of you labor.

Because of confusions, I choose to be idle. Unlike others who are willing to go on and adapt easily from the changes around. And that idleness drowned me, making me feel pre-occupied of the thought that... "nothing will still happen".

So what do everyone expected: I was in the middle of my fiasco. The road I was walking seemed so vague. The judgments of other people is an added reason of choosing to hide from reality. I hated the wicked words and the degrading thoughts being thrown upon.

But actually, it did not take long for me to ponder and realized on things.
GOD really do loves me, by putting wonderful people in my life.
As I go along, the fiasco that I was expereincing turned out to be the motivator within me to help myself to live once again.
Strength and courage were just around, it was I who ignored it.
Opening my mind from these instances gave me the chance of breathing LIFE once more.
Of UNDERSTANDING life.
Of ACCEPTING life.
And of living it to the fullest.
I learned to understand the waves of life, its ups and downs, its twists and turns.
I learned to appreciate more the essence of this gift and to learn to love myself even more.

Yes I experienced all of those.
My faith became stronger.
And with it, fiasco's didn't frighten me anymore.
But it does not mean that I love experiencing failures, its just that I learned how to TRUST HIM. Trust Him with everything and anything.

As what Kuya Kim says: Ang buhay ay weather-weather lang. (saying this with a smile)

The one who allows himself to be drowned with uncertainties, is the one who eventually looses the battle.

Learn to stand up, fight and trust the Creator.
And one day, you will really be amaze of how you have went through all the struggles of your life.
What matters most in the end is how you learn and accept things and eventually decided to continued the journey.

**BE HAPPY**

Boredom is the stage where you actually doesn't know what to do at the moment.
And yes, it can kill! (lol)
And due to curious people surrounding me, they've been asking me what's the best thing to do to procrastinate.
I am actually not a procrastination master or guru because I guess my answer for that question is also just the same answers of many people around me.

When boredom strikes, I actually do the "common things" in that moment.
Like eating, sleep sleep sleep, read a book and surf the web.
Ok let's start with my first boredom fighter, EATING.

Eating is actually an exercise. hehe Yes it really is!
It exercises our jaws and mind. Because chewing enables the jaws to do the necessary movements and choosing the right food to eat exercises our mind,our mental capacity to function at times of dullness. (hehehe)
I really go with foods that are sweet, most probably chocolates. And citrus fruits, too. Because sweets and citrus food activates our adrenalin, allowing our body to become alive, awake, enthusiastic (hey!remember that old ice-breaker?! hehehe).

NEXT with my list: Sleep sleep sleep.(zZzZz)
Sleeping fights boredom (well that's my opinion. haha!)
Since you actually don't know what to do, because your bored, the activity of sleeping will help relax your body and allows you to be active on the other side of your world (your dreamssssss). :)

But oversleeping can cause beri-beri, that which bloats your feet and arms (its actually from an old belief, haha!).

Or if you are still bored with sleeping, mind as well read a book.
A good book perhaps!
You don'nt want to assume reading a book just for the sake of nothing, right?!
It will only waste your time and effort.
So read with proper focus and purpose!
And you will fight the boredom plus earning more knowledge and eventually become a person with substance.

And the MOST effective of all boredom fighters- SURFING THE WEB!
The internet has always been a cool dimension for us.
Browsing the web will enhance our awareness about soooo many things, it will also heighten our addiction to it (hahaha)!

Anyways, Internet offers a lot of boredom fighters.
You can enjoy the social networking sites such as Friendster, Multiply, Facebook, etc. These sites offer game applications which can really make you alive and bring you back to your childhood years. (hehehehe)
Just like in Facebook, it has its famous game apps like Pet Society which can allow you to have a digital pet (weird ones but guaranteed fun).
Another are the FarmBuddy, FarmTown, etc. which allow you to own hectares of land for your farm (or hacienda-could-be, hehehe) without having legal documents and without undergoing standard operating procedures (hahaha!)

So c'mon!
Be creative.
Creative in a way that you'll never really get bored. (hahaha!)
Do whatever you want, but hey, do only what is right and just- it's a good implication of practicing your freedom.

Enjoy your days ahead.
God Bless! :)

We wanted to be accepted by many.
We wanted to have the fame.
We wanted to have the recognition.
We wanted to have the appreciation.
We wanted to have the attention.
We wanted to have the spotlight.
We wanted to have the compliments.

Which eventually makes us...

useless.
worthless.
insignificant.
undeserving.
pointless.
unavailing.

Why do we so much crave for prestige?!

When HUMILITY is better than POPULARITY.
When SIMPLICITY is greater than FANCY.
When MODESTY is preferrable than HAUGHTY.

We're just the ones making our life complicated.

☺bLithe☺

"it's the good girls who keep diaries,
the bad girls never have the time."

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