 In the altar of matrimony, the priest said "Now, you are united as one.. let no man put asunder.. For richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, till death do us part, etc.." These are the commitments that each couple vowed to each other during a wedding ceremony. And as they seal the marital knot with a kiss, the couple signed the papers that will put their single blessedness to a halt. But nowadays, we can see a lot of unfaithful husbands and wives.The philandering husbands maintaining several mistresses and 2nd families or more.In the news there are a lot of women caught by their respective husbands playing with fire, some even with their "kumpare", old flame, friend or even brother-in-law. Even some movie stars and celebrities change partners as often as they want to. As if it becomes a natural thing. What drive them to be unfaithful? Some says the fault lies in the nagger wife, the drunkard husband, attitude differences or just fall out of love or no longer happy with the relationship. Are these reasons enough for one to find a new love or lust? What is happening? Have we lose our morals? Did we give somebody the slip to invade this in our society? Did our society allow this to develop in our midst? Is this the legacy that we will leave to our children and the future generation? Divorce, legal separation and annulments cases filed are increasing. Most of the reasons given are deception, psychological incapacity, etc.But before the wed, there are a lot of seminars to be taken as part of the marriage licensing requirements.One of this is pre-cana or marriage counseling, where the couple is prepared and advised of what they are into, a lifetime commitment. Either you have been engaged long enough or short term, it doesn't matter. You will only know thoroughly your partner once you lived with him or her. Of course, the good side came before and during the engagement and the bad came after the wedding, but you married this somebody for life as sanctioned by the laws of the land and blessed by the Lord above. I don't argue with some who said, "what's the use of continuing the relationship if it doesn't work." You just have to accept the best and the worst of him/her. Just remember all the rosy days in your married life and the fruits that were born out of this union... ..your children.. and you will live happily ever after.. =') |
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